Some things are hard to say

Published on: 2013-12-04 2:56:57 PM
Filed under: Self Improvement

When we hide our true feelings, we often think that we are protecting another person from hurt. We gloss over truths or just avoid confrontation altogether. Most of us were taught that if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Another reason we steer away from the truth is that we are assuming others are going to react the same way you would. If you get hurt when someone doesn’t call or says he’s not interested, then you will shy away from doing ...

Dating a boy versus dating a man

Published on: 2013-09-09 11:37:02 AM
Filed under: Tips

Not so long ago, I remember dating a guy that called back only sometimes and showed minimal interest, and somehow I did get hooked. You could say I was attracted to the bad boy/ unavailable boy/ player. I was undoubtedly drawn to something unhealthy.  I was explained by my therapist that sometimes we are attracted to people who can wound us the same way we were wounded in our childhood.  Now that had me wonder. As I decided to move on and reflect on this, I learned to ...

Mastering your relationship

Published on: 2013-05-13 9:31:03 PM
Filed under: Self Improvement

Mastering your relationship: Not taking the other for granted We all want and need a relationship, the bonding with another human being with whom we can build our lives together. Have you noticed that people work really hard at building a relationship, but once the relationship is established it seems as if it is just taken for granted. This to me is quite a sad thing because it means that way too many people are missing out on being alive. If you want to be in this for the long term ...

Who pays? The nice thing to do is the right thing to do

Published on: 2013-04-23 2:39:41 PM
Filed under: Tips

I enjoy receiving feedback from our male and female clients as to how a date went, to confirm that the two hit it off! Unfortunately, we hear too many times, to our horror, that the man expected the woman to pay half of the restaurant or bar bill on the first few dates.  Ok, I will not sugar coat this, it goes like this.  While most women enjoy being treated as equal, being a gentlemen and having some class has never been so important.  This is how a ...

Men are looking for the 4 b's in a woman

Published on: 2013-04-17 3:23:58 PM
Filed under: Tips

When talking about what makes a man attracted to a quality woman, you need to consider the 4 b's and how you measure up: Brain - Beauty - Body - Balance