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For men: the "mother" of all faux pas

Published on: 2013-04-17 11:37:19 AM
Filed under: Tips

This is what I have experienced as being a turn off for most women. I keep hearing this over and over again. A man showing his attraction to another woman, even as a-joke-to-see-your-reaction, and letting you know that he is "sort of still shopping".  I do not know of one woman who will not get completely turned off by this.  No matter what, a woman likes to feel unique, chosen and very special.  Why would a man do this? I wonder.  Probably ...

A Perfect Date

Published on: 2013-03-25 11:27:52 AM
Filed under: Tips

Did you just get out of a relationship and find yourself single again? Has the dating scene changed since you were last out there? Are you out of practice in meeting new people to date? Think positive Banish all negative thoughts from your mind. This means no thinking about worst-case scenarios and no negative self talk (he won't like me, I look fat in this, etc.) Just be yourself, and everything will fall into place. If you go into the date with a positive outlook, you'll be much more ...

How to Find Love

Published on: 2013-03-25 11:24:14 AM
Filed under: Self Improvement Tips

Regardless of our culture, our level of education or economic status, at the depth of all of us are the same desires- to love, to be loved, and to be happy. Of course we could add other desires to this list, like money and wealth and fancy things, but when you drill into these things, the reason for wanting them is so that we can appear more desirable, and will hopefully be loved and accepted. If love is something so fundamentally important to us, then why is it that we have so many ...

Time To Let Go

Published on: 2013-03-25 11:19:04 AM
Filed under: Tips

The key to life is learning to let go of the past. Letting go is one of the core elements of all ancient teachings. The bible teaches us that we need to let go. Zen masters teach it. Buddhist monks teach it. But letting go of the past sounds a lot easier than it is. What does it really mean to let go? To some, letting go might feel like giving up, yet at the end of a relationship there comes a time to let go in order to heal and move on. Most people have a vision of what a good relationship ...

Men, beware of faux-pas!

Published on: 2012-08-01 11:08:00 PM
Filed under: Tips

You are going on your first date with someone that you are really looking forward to meet.  Don’t let mistakes put her off. Here are some things to avoid if you want your date to go smoothly: Bragging. No need to show-off your money, how important your job is, to drop names to try to impress. Some reserve will be better appreciated. Don’t be too anxious to please. For sure a compliment is always nice. However, don’t overdo it and make it look like you are ...