Dating and relationship challenges?

Stop spinning your wheels
Find answers with It's a Match


Since 2014, Marie-Claude Quessy from It’s a Match has provided one-on-one coaching services

in the area of dating and relationships by mentoring, educating and helping

her clients remove blocks that are holding them back. 


Practical and common sense online coaching is offered through

video conferencing as well as private live chat, messaging,

email and phone conversations.

Coaching that works.

  • Are you kind, attractive, intelligent but still single?

  • Do you feel you are wasting time in relationships that are unfulfilling?

  • Tired of dummying down your interactions with some singles or feeling you need to pretend to be someone you are not?

  • Tired of the mind games?

  • Finding online dating awful?

  • Handling conflict poorly?

  • Bad at reading emotional clues?

  • Not sure you are making a good impression on dates?

Don't settle for less than you deserve.​

I speak from personal experience when I say that I understand the dynamics of personal attraction and I have developed a methodology to transform those learnings into the insights and actions my clients can use to move forward with greater awareness and grace.


Everyone is deserving of happiness.  It may be time to enter into a high quality relationship and share a profound connection.


Do the work and redraw the path of your love life.


Since 2012,  

and coaching


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Schedule at a time and place convenient for you


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Meet Your Coach

In 2014, I established It's a Match as a matchmaking service for professionals who either had no luck finding healthy relationship partners on public-facing dating services such as Plenty of Fish, or eHarmony, or chose not to expose themselves on public-facing dating sites.  Some had faced years of challenges in finding the right match while others were recently single after many years in a long-term relationship.


What I noticed is that many of my clients were simply not equipped nor prepared to meet the right person and this was hindering their progress, leaving them discouraged and disheartened. This revelation changed my focus.  Instead of orchestrating dates, I could provide a more valuable service by guiding my clients to understand what kinds of changes they could make in their own life in order to attract the best kind of partner with which to share life's experiences.  This is the focus of my coaching practice, delivered in either English or French.

Could we be a match? Contact me to explore the possibility of a productive coaching relationship.

Marie-Claude Quessy
MC Quessy of Its a Match
Moving out into the world again

In their own words

"For some years now I  have focused so much on my education in medicine that I never got around to  dating.  In fact I have never dated a woman.  Where do I start? I cannot see myself posting a public profile on a dating app."

Professional male, age 38, never married

"I gave everything to this marriage. 


My ex criticized me a lot.


I should be happy to be free to date but i find the idea of meeting new women challenging."

Male, age 57, married 28 years now divorced.  

Has met his match.

"The fear of being rejected once more is holding me back. I just can't take it anymore.  I would welcome a brand new healthy relationship but too many things from past romances have been left unresolved."

Female, age 57, married, divorced, single for 12 years. Now in a meaningful relationship.

"I know how to manipulate men into sex and short term relationships.   I am a pro at this. However fun at the moment, that leaves me feeling empty, lonely and bored. I want more and I feel clueless."

Young professional female, age 27, never married.  

Now in a solid relationship.

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